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'But I don’t want to go among mad people,’ Alice remarked. 'Oh, you can’t help that,’ said the Cat: 'we’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.’ 'How do you know I’m mad?’ said Alice. 'You must be,’ said the Cat, 'or you wouldn’t have come here.’ (from "Alice in Wonderland" by Lewis Carroll)

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الأحد، مايو 07، 2006

Do u hate Love?

"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it oepns up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love."

Neil Gaiman (An English Born American Author of The Sandman)

5 Comments:

Blogger emy said...

Neil must have just stepped out of a bad experience, for him to write in such pain...
it's true really...but ur bad experiences shouldnt ruin the rest of ur life...
i used to believe in those words for some time...
but i realized that love has nothing to do abt it...u can't hate love or falling in love...ppl r the ones to blame really...coz we're the ones who mess things up afterall :)
and dun look at the half empty side of the glass...
coz still when we're in love we're happy and strong and confident and many other things...u gotta admit that too ;)

6:35 م  
Blogger سَيد العارفين said...

thanks alot emy for both the advice and the comment ..

i osted this paragraph cuz it describes exactly, some terrible experince i passed since 3 months now... however i do think it is true.. yet also as u said, love is not something u can RESIST or cant be VACCINATED against...
am not sure am ready to trust anyone n the near future... but am sure i will oneday ... i've passed lots of hard times b4 n my real life, so failure n love .. isnt the end .

9:18 ص  
Blogger dreaming bird said...

hey ,
congratulations on the blog.i agree with emy . i am not saying here trust all ppl or noone at all but live the experience . u know how mush disasters u went through and passed it as u know to lean u should taste pain ya ibrahim. we all have our bad experiences but صوابعك مش زى بعضيها i know opening ourselves again towards life with accepting the risk is not that easy but life is a risk .

note

everything u resist is something u cant control , and what u resist persist

good luck

11:59 ص  
Blogger dreaming bird said...

i will quote one of ur brilliant sentences " there is no pure good , no pure bad " always remember it

6:29 م  
Blogger سَيد العارفين said...

thanks alot yasmeen for caring..

i never forgot .. but it is just we pass those times of our lives when it is better to be ALONE

8:46 ص  

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